Funny you should mention "Willy Wonka". I've just bought Alyssa a big book of Roald Dahl stories for Christmas - she loves them!

As to having kids, it is pretty special, and I feel for those that wish to, but are unable. I also think there are a lot of folk out there who should never had had kids...On the other hand, there are a few who decide (for whatever reason) that they don't wish to, and I applaud that. Some people just aren't cut out to be parents, and if they recognise that, good on them.