For one....I'd sort of liken this place to a neighborhood bar full of a wide range of the bizarre, the cranky, the strongly opinionated and Type A personalities that have come to tolerate each other.

Then, to top it off, quite often, the person this fan site follows even stops in to commiserate with this group of yahoos.

So, while it might not be fair to state this, I still will - I'd suggest you get to learn about the regulars a bit more before hoping they "grow up."

Yes, it might seem some of these unknown regulars are rude or disrespectful, however, with time you'll learn of their personalities a bit more and see that when stepping into a "neighborhood bar," the regulars sort of do get more of a bit of leeway.

Also, I'd suggest you scroll through the archives a bit more. A lot of the answers you seek have all ready been asked and answered.

Lastly, welcome to this interesting enclave and be sure to wear your thickest skin because if you bleed easy from nicks of sarcasm and wit, then you won't last long.