My mother's song: Send in the Clowns. I don't know who besides Judy Collins might have been the performer she preferred. IUn college comone played a JC tape and I got som I got nostalgically, blindly tearful at the song Both Sides Now during my senior year.

For my funeral, I think Salisbury Hill. Yes it's one of my favorites, but the lyrics are quite applicable.

 Or, the LotR music for the Theoden burial. Haven't heard it yet, but I'm sure it'll be good.

Kelly