I despise this war and the people that put the country, and those 2 young men, in it.  I have nothing but condolences and sympathy for the family.

I can only hope that if I were face to face with the parents I would find something useful to say, rather than dwelling on the fact that they lost 2 sons for no good reason whatsoever.  And that's the catch-22 that the right has put us in.  If we don't support the war, we minimize those that have been sacrificed to it.  Completely wrong.