Not to get too technical, but a couple of points:

it is regularly demonstrated, that men have no power(legally) in the matter, apart from paying(that includes, if they do not want to be a Father while the woman decides she does, &/or, the man wanting to raise the child while the woman decides to abort). In short, as with most custody cases, men get all the short straws because the law says so;

women have/had a choice -unless she was raped. Meaning that they were either, equally irresponsible or God called their birth control bluff(my youngest sister stuck despite Mom using protection(the pill). The only birth control that's fool proof, is a girl keeping her knees together, despite all the swimming pool pregnancies we heard about when I was a lad.

These too, are other fronts in the cultural warfare surrounding this issue. Investigate how many years Ruth Bader Ginsberg sought a case that would accomplish what Roe v, Wade did. And how many failures she, and other abortion zealots, had before they got most of what they wanted. (The full spectrum of eugenics being that lots end game.)

An old truism applies: be careful what you wish for ....

peaceably