Messy,

I must confess that I frequently can't understand your posts (I guess I'm too literal a guy), but the pain you and your family are experiencing comes across all too loudly and clearly. Please know I've been thinking of your wife and truly wish I could reach across the land to embrace you all. Let her know she's on the minds of many whom she hasn't met. It sounds like a cliche, but honestly, if there's anything that this community can do, I know the kindness and willingness to lend a hand are there.

Peter T.