I wasn't stopping there, I just thought someone besides me may find it useful as background to their own thoughts.I'll read the link.

I've had the same problem with the 12 step "if you ever could say yes to this question, you have a problem" mentality. Hello, ever heard of college? Most of us come out and radically change our drinking patterns, don't we?

PS, remember I was not drinking when I made the "blame it on the martini" post! I'm naturally like that at times--as if that would come as a surprise to anyone who reads my posts.