The groovy girl across the street gave a few of us (individually) quite excellent sex education in the late ‘70s. It helped to instill in me a real respect & fascination for responsible memorable focus on the principle enjoyment of the lovely (yoni) female ..leading to meaningful enjoyment for the male as well (in harmony). Then a lifetime o that key focus passed on to one’s sons sets a tone for how many generations of boys-to-men whose chief fascination sexually is to dive wholeheartedly into the deep end of one woman at a time’s cosmic estrogen energies while seeking to know the warmest respects & chivalry during a relationship (& if necessary during the difficult but life’s rocky pop reality-based breakups). If families had set this tone across the board, there would be conscientious sex between our precious progeny—& far less destructive emotional wounds in young girls’ lives. I mean every breakup is a tough ax to grind for both girl & boy innit but I’ve seen young love move on to greener pastures plenty o times. & that’s life. ((((..BUT it has no bearing on what happened to wife Maya & hubby me. That was just pure f#!king cruelty of an indiscriminate Or Other nature. But we knew whole LOVE so deep & completely (before the kneecapping took us down & left ol’ messybear severed, soul-splintered, battering rammed & butchered guts in puddles without his Qi maya-love..))))

So maybe empower your girls to be whole & fun-loving, smart, sporty, creative & intuitive, yet humble, curious & kind, & teach your boys to treasure fun-loving, smart & sporty, intuitive, creative, curious & kind girls from head to toe & methinks we’re on to something as a Western Societal whole. Just sayin’, really, I mean it’s only a matter of opinion. But this slide from a potentially experience-based enlightenment back into a fanatical puritanical fear-&-shame based dichotomy is jus so real damned bad for the West..