Not sure how you could class any of those examples in the same vein of "hate speech" as Coulter's "faggot" comment.  There's not a slur in the entire 5 examples.  There are insults, but not slurs.  Big difference.

And then she has the stone cold brass balls to say that she wasn't using "faggot" as a slur at all, but as a schoolyard taunt similar in meaning to "wuss".  And then she tells Hannity that the when the Grey's Anatomy guy used the same word, it was a slur, since he was actually talking about a homosexual.

It was interesting to see Colmes trying to hold her feet to the fire, then have Sean come in and essentially let her off.

Hate speech is all over the place. It ain't all one-sided.

You're right there.  Just seems that some Neo-cons have a hard time identifying it unless it's directed at one of their own.