In almost every argument you would use on a young impressionable 17 year old mind for joining the service I would also offer up one to the young 17 year old (or younger women considering an abortion). Each one is making a decision that they will live with (or not live with) for the rest of their lives. For the young man it would be beneficial to hear from both sides on the issue not just the recruiter's side and not just the military is crap side. If he is going in with both eyes wide open and still choses to you have to respect that. A man who is convinced against his will is of the same opinion still