Brad,
you say... "it is a SERIOUS and TRAUMATIC life event. there is nothing easy off-shruggable about it, for either party involved. it stays with you a long time, whether you choose to deal with it or repress it."
Could it be that you know it's a wrong decision and that is why those heavy feelings surround it? If abortion wasn't wrong there shouldn't be any regret, guilt or trauma. We all know the answer but we like the convenience and that's sad.
Kevin g
